Why are we so often defensive?

An excellent source of ideas for how to improve is listening to what other people say, and overcoming our natural tendency to be defensive. [...]

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Anger management and what we expect of other people

I used to have absurdly high expectations of other people. Sometimes I still do. I’m stupid. [...]

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Athlete and Arctic Monkeys

First reactions after listening to each new album once, plus a random thought for the Kaiser Chiefs. [...]

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Do lawyers understand maths?

 

Sometimes justice and a good result don't require a lawyer

When you’re highly trained in one area and spend most of your life focussing on that way of thinking you can end up forgetting what else counts in life.

Take law for instance. A lawyer has not just studied the law in depth but has also been soaked [...]

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Fragmented memories of being 17 coming up 18 and down

As a teenager I started to experience chronic depression. This is part of how it felt, and what I learned. [...]

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“I’m so pathetic I expect people to laugh at me” : that’s a good starting point

Some people are chatting

Some people are chatting. As you approach them you feel painfully self-conscious because they’re in a group and you’re on your own. You make a show of looking at your watch, and then speed up as if late for an appointment. Somehow walking faster feels better.

As you’re passing they burst into laughter.

You [...]

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“You’ve shown me disrespect so we’re going to kill you.”

It turns out there are two contradictory types of ‘self esteem’ [...]

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Change to how often I post

Now there’s plenty to read on this blog I’m reducing from posting six days a week to three – half a cake…

This will give me more energy to work on other writing, particularly the Adam Warner book ‘Adam : a fiercely unremarkable story’.

If you’re new to reading blogs and want to know when a new post [...]

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Teachers I remember with gratitude #3

George Smith was Vice Principal of Bede College, Durham in the 60s. [...]

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How do I feel today? I don’t know.

Is today a good day or a bad day? I guess it’s just a normal day. [...]

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Why do we so often reject the truth? (Ignaz Semmelweis – 2)

All too often new ideas that make significant improvements are rejected. Why does this happen? [...]

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How do people come up with ground-breaking ideas?

So much that is obvious now was ground-breaking when first understood. How do we come up with really new idea? [...]

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Today’s news about antidepressants increasing chance of feeling suicidal for under 25s

This post links to the original stories and makes three important aspects clearer. [...]

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Should we be scared of schizophrenic people?

The media encourages us to lump together all people with schizophrenia as dangerous and to be locked up. This is seriously wrong. [...]

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What is it like to run a Nigerian Scam?

Have you ever received one of those e-mails offering you money for nothing if you help someone abroad transfer a very large sum of money to your country? Because many of the early versions of this fraud came from Nigeria it’s been dubbed the  Nigerian Scam. Want to know what the people running it are like? Karin [...]

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