Topic: Growing old  Nigel  December 31st,2011 We’ve been invited to a New Year’s Eve party this evening. It doesn’t involve much effort being next door. But you know what they say about knowing you’re middle-aged when offered the choice of two evenings out you pick the one that gets you home earliest. Do I feel like I’ll enjoy it? [...] Share on Facebook Topic: Growing old  Nigel  December 27th,2011 We have a friend,now in her seventies,who has devoted her life to other people. Her working life was spent in Africa (mainly Kenya) with her husband and family. They built their own home,then built a hospital. He was a medic,and ably ran the hospital. She set up a small [...] Share on Facebook Topic: Growing old  Nigel  December 22nd,2011 It’s nearly Christmas and Tesco have started offering cut-price ‘puff pastry mince-pies’. They’re beautiful,alarmingly more-ish,and taste somewhere between a croissant and a danish. Tesco bake them fresh on the premises and there are four in a pack. And there are two of us,which even I can figure is two each. Two each [...] Share on Facebook Topic: Growing old  Nigel  November 14th,2011 It’s dead easy to grow old. You just have to wait. But it’s also very difficult. Too much is changing in ways you’d rather not experience. It’s a new period of life with new and not that pleasant phases to it. In fact although I’m only 62 I’ve been through times when I felt [...] Share on Facebook Topic: writing and publishing  Nigel  October 28th,2011 people matter more … Life has been unfair to us. Adam has cerebral palsy (and is a lazy git lol) Nige has had chronic depression for 46 years (and is far too old to do anything new ) But so what? Everyone’s disabled,everyone has tough bits to their life. The question is,where [...] Share on Facebook Topic: random  Nigel  October 6th,2011 What did I do to deserve this? It’s not fair! Why was I born with so many problems? It’s not fair! Why wasn’t I born better looking,healthier,stronger? It’s not fair! Life hurts. I’m too old/young. I was born at the wrong time for a person like me. I don’t know the right people. [...] Share on Facebook Topic: photos  Nigel  March 29th,2011 Every season is special,but Spring has the edge. It heals the failed memories of Winter. Over recent weeks I’ve had the camera with me on walks,and some results are fun. I love each season,but I love Spring. Between winter and spring lies a season of confusion and hope And then yesterday [...] Share on Facebook Topic: monochrome and blue  Nigel  February 10th,2011 Don’t pressure me to have an alcoholic drink when I refuse the first offer. And please don’t pressure anyone else. You see,you may have no idea why someone is saying no. Here are some possibilities: Addiction The person may be an addict who no longer drinks. Any alcohol will trigger the old desire [...] Share on Facebook Topic: wet super computer  Nigel  January 24th,2011 In my country he’s called Ed Milliband and leads the Labour Party,but most countries allow a formal opposition the the ruling government. And where none is allowed it almost certainly exists. I’m not sending this to Ed. Some skilled assistant would no doubt intercept it,and anyway he’s not the only guy in the [...] Share on Facebook Topic: wet super computer  Nigel  November 15th,2010 What’s wrong with how FIFA and England Football seem to be allowing themselves to think? [...] Share on Facebook Topic: reviews  Nigel  September 1st,2010 So far I’ve read just one book published by BeWrite Books (see yesterday’s post). It’s one of Liza Granville’s called Until the Skies Fall. What follows is the review I posted on Amazon: —Five stars — I loved this book. Apparently it will have a sequel. I can’t wait. The story could be described [...] Share on Facebook Topic: wet super computer  Nigel  July 29th,2010 What is it about us that causes to behave stupidly in a crowd? [...] Share on Facebook Topic: photos  Nigel  June 1st,2010 Saturday 23 November 1963 and we were excited. A brand new series was to start on BBC1. It was science fiction. It was hyped before we’d heard of the word. At 5.15 that afternoon I was helping out at a Scout jumble sale and wishing I could be at home watching Dr Who. Pretty [...] Share on Facebook Topic: monochrome and blue  Nigel  April 10th,2010 It may be worth seeking the help of someone who can help you review memories that are currently destructive. [...] Share on Facebook Topic: monochrome and blue  Nigel  April 5th,2010 We need to go beyond getting solutions to our problems from other people. 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